I am getting older every day—no news flash there. But in my younger years, I was a very average achiever in school and other endeavours.

So how have I become much more of an overachiever, you ask? Thanks for asking; I have an answer.

As I age, people expect less of me. I’m told I don’t look, act, or think my age, so I don’t overachieve until folks know my age. Wow—is a frequent reaction.

I was in an ice cream shop recently, buying my favourite item on the menu. This is not a nutritionally sound treat, but I had reached a goal of losing 5 pounds, part of a larger goal—or should I say a lesser goal.

I still had my wristband on from the local recreation centre, and when the server learned I had just come from working out, he struggled with the relationship between fitness and my ice cream dish.

I explained that I was celebrating reaching a goal of weight loss and that, at 76 years of age, small accomplishments deserve celebration.

His jaw literally dropped open and stayed like that for several long seconds. Wow was all he could say for a few moments.

I went from a pretend physical fitness follower to almost a hero. Someone worth emulating when he grew old like me. There I go, overachieving again.

As I approached 65, I considered not revealing my age too often. I’m not sure why.

Then, as I flew past 70, I reversed my position to look for strategic moments to tell people my age. This time, I knew why. I wanted younger folks to know we older folks are invisibly walking amongst them. Being over 70 comes with baggage of the worst kind: Ageism.

At some point, and I’m not sure when, I turned from being active to being described as spry., Ouch!

At some point, and I don’t know when, I turned from being romantic when walking down the street holding my wife’s hand to it being referred to as cute. Ouch again.

I like being an overachiever as much as the next person. But I don’t want the bar lowered, so just getting out of bed in the morning is worthy of a ‘well done.’

Please give this a bit of a think. What did you do that brought you a surprising notice of a well done? Why were you surprised? How did you respond? Would you respond differently today?

I’m curious about your thoughts. Please share your bit of a think in the comment section below. It will come to me for approval before posting.

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